🌹 Relationship Design

An 8-Week Journey to

Redesign the Way You Love

with Dr. Serafina Ankhalla 𖡼 Oct 7th - Nov 20th

⇸ Consciously Create the Relationship You Actually Want, Not the One You Inherited. ⇷

This is an 8-week live online course for anyone ready to break old patterns, communicate clearly, and build love rooted in truth, choice, and intimacy.

What is Relationship Design?

Most relationships are built on unconscious habits, inherited trauma, and unspoken rules. They’re based on what we saw and experienced growing up—not what we actually want.

Relationship Design is for people who are done with default love.
This isn’t about fixing what's broken. It's about creating something entirely new—from the ground up.

Over eight weeks, you'll craft a clear, sacred blueprint for your relationships. One that honors your truths, expands your intimacy, and transforms your connection—whether you're currently partnered, preparing for the relationship of your dreams, or improving your relationship with yourself.

This is not therapy. This is architecture. Sacred. Intentional. Potent.

WHO THIS IS FOR:

From Default to Design

A Transformational Path for Conscious Love

This course is for you if you're ready to up-level your most important relationships and:

  • Experience deeper intimacy with self and others

  • Speak your truth clearly and confidently

  • Break free of generational relationship patterns

  • Learn conscious agreements, boundaries, and repair

  • Create or rebuild a relationship that actually works

Whether you’re partnered, single, in a situationship, or redefining love completely—you’re welcome here.

𑁍 WHAT YOU GET

  • 8 Live Weekly Group Sessions (Recorded + Available for 30 Days after the program ends)

  • Weekly Integration Assignments

  • Private Community for Support, Practice, and Sharing

  • Discounted 1:1 Mentorship Sessions for Deeper Integration

  • 8 optional group Q&A / Coaching / Practice  sessions to help you deepen your understanding and apply the tools and skills you are learning to your relationship(s)

𑁍 WEEKLY MODULES AT A GLANCE

MODULE 1

The Current Blueprint
See the map you’ve been following — and discover the patterns ready to be rewritten.

MODULE 2

Desire as Sacred Compass
Claim your deepest longings and let them lead you toward the love you truly want.

MODULE 3

The Unsaids
Bring light to what’s been unspoken so needs are met and connection grows stronger.

MODULE 4

Boundaries
Create loving, conscious containers that honor and protect both partners.

MODULE 5

Listening as Devotion
Offer presence so profound your partner feels fully heard, seen, and understood.

MODULE 6

The Redo
Turn rupture into repair with practices that restore trust and harmony.

MODULE 7

The Amends Process
Release lingering hurt and create fresh space for love to thrive.

MODULE 8 

Relationship Assessment Ritual
Celebrate your growth, deepen your vision, and design the next chapter together.

When Classes are Held:

Thursdays 5:30-7:30 Pacific Time

𑁍 Oct 2, 2025 Module 1

𑁍 Oct 9, 2025 Module 2

𑁍 Oct 16, 2025 Module 3

𑁍 Oct 23, 2025 Module 4

𑁍 Oct 30, 2025 Module 5

𑁍 Nov 6, 2025 Module 6

𑁍 Nov 13, 2025 Module 7

𑁍 Nov 20, 2025 Module 8

+ Optional Weekly Group Q&A / Coaching / Practice Sessions 

(Once a week.  Dates and Times TBA)A after group poll has been copleted

* ​​Live or on replay — you won’t miss a thing. Join the live calls for real-time connection, or catch the recordings anytime during the course and for 30 days after.

To get the fullest experience from this course, we encourage you to join the live calls so you can connect, ask questions, and be part of the energy in real time. If you can’t make it, you’ll still be fully supported — every call will be recorded and available for you to watch anytime during the course and for 30 days afterward. You can revisit the recordings anytime to deepen your learning, refresh key concepts, or catch details you may have missed — it’s like having the course in your back pocket.

✨ WHAT YOU'LL WALK AWAY WITH

  • A relationship blueprint that’s conscious, embodied, and aligned

  • Tools for honest, connected communication

  • Clarity around your values, desires, and boundaries

  • A new level of safety and intimacy with yourself and others

  • Confidence in your ability to navigate rupture and repair

  • A powerful framework to evolve any relationship consciously

💸 SACRED EXCHANGE

Early Early Bird — $411 (Ends 8/28)
Early Bird — $477 (Ends 9/11)
Full Price — $555 (Enrollment closes on 10/7)

Sponsorship Price / Angel Fund — (Choose any amount above $555)


Contribute to our ANGEL FUND and Sponsor a Seat: If you are able to give beyond your own tuition, your extra contribution will go directly into our community scholarship fund. This helps someone whose heart is ready for this work, but whose finances are limited, join us and receive the transformation they deserve. Together, we make this work more accessible for all.

Partial / Full Scholarships Available — If your heart is saying yes but your finances are saying no, please know you are still welcome here. Thanks to the generosity of our community, we have a limited number of scholarships to help those called to this work step fully into it. [application coming soon]

About Your Guide:

For nearly a decade, I’ve guided couples through transformational processes that unravel unconscious patterns, awaken clarity, and invite a conscious, heart-led design for relationship. My approach blends somatic healing, trauma-informed coaching, conscious communication, and embodiment practices, drawing from extensive training in nervous system regulation, tantra, and the shamanic healing arts.

This integration allows me to create a safe, powerful space where lasting transformation in love becomes possible. I believe every relationship holds the potential to be a living work of art — one that reflects the highest truth, beauty, and love within each person.

With the right guidance and intentional design, your relationship can become a powerful catalyst for growth, healing, and the fullest expression of who you are. I would be honored to support you in this journey and hope to walk alongside you in the upcoming class.

With love,
Dr. Serafina Ankhalla

What course participants are saying…

  • "I feel seen, celebrated, and fully myself.

    This course gave me the courage to name my true desires—and the confidence to ask for 100% of them. To my amazement, I received exactly what I asked for. It felt thrilling, empowering, and deeply affirming. I now understand how to create intentional agreements, repair with love, and build emotionally safe connections. My partner and I are thriving in ways I didn’t think were possible.”

    — Jim LaBelle

  • For singles wondering if this will work for them:

    "I joined the masterclass series as a single woman, thinking it would help me ‘prepare’ for the right relationship. What I didn’t expect was how much it helped me see the patterns I’d been stuck in — and how to design something completely different. I’ve started dating with so much more clarity and confidence."


    — Samantha K., Portland

  • For people who worry they can’t make it live or attend all the sessions:

    “Even just one class with Serafina changed how I approached my relationship. The replay was so valuable, but I signed up for the rest of the series because I didn’t want to miss the magic of being live. Every session built on the last, and by the end, I felt like I had an entire toolkit for love.”


    — Rachel M., San Diego

  • For those nervous their partner won’t participate:

    "My partner wasn’t interested at first, so I came alone. Just by applying what I learned, I noticed immediate changes in how we communicated and handled conflict. A few weeks later, he asked to join me because he saw how much better things were."


    — Michael T., Austin

  • "Because of the tools I learned in this course, I was able to turn moments of rupture into opportunities for deep connection and intimacy.

    In the past, I would have avoided conflict, but now I feel confident navigating it—making amends with an open heart and creating true win–win scenarios in my relationships."

  • "More conscious, confident, and connected than ever.

    I came in unsure, even fearful, about expressing my needs. Now, I feel safe speaking my truth. I can identify my needs, express them without shame, and listen to others in a way that creates deeper connection. If you want authentic, intentional, aligned relationships, take this course.”

    — Erin Doumert

  • "Helped me far beyond my romantic relationship.

    I came in focused on my marriage, but I realized I could apply these tools with friends and colleagues too. The results have been powerful. Whether you want more intimacy with a partner or deeper connection in all your relationships, this course has it.”

    — Bodhi

  • “Halfway through, I’d already had life-changing a-ha moments.

    Serafina’s Relationship Design course is incredible. Even halfway through, I’d already had life-changing a-ha moments. She creates such a safe and beautiful container, and her nuanced approach shows how self-discovery directly transforms our relationships. I’ve learned to check in with myself, honor my truth, and bring more intention into every connection. I can’t recommend her enough.”

  • "Serafina is such a great relationship coach.

    “I took her Relationship by Design Group Program and have to say it was amazing. I so enjoyed how she teaches and what she provided was so so valuable. I was in a few hot seats and she really holds such great space and is able to support so beautifully. I really enjoyed learning about Repairing after a conflict, the steps to repair were so so invaluable. I highly recommend taking her program, you will be glad you did.”

  • "We got more results in 1.5 hours than years of therapy.

    My husband and I have been in therapy for many years, and 1.5 hours with Serafina helped us more than all those years combined. I’ve never felt so seen, heard, understood, held, and acknowledged. She is a master of her craft and creates a space of deep safety and attunement.”

“I took Serafina’s Relationship by Design group program, and I have to say it was phenomenal…”

“It’s allowed me to have an intimate relationship that’s real for maybe the first time in my life…’

FAQs

𖡼 Do I need to be in a relationship to join?

Not at all. This course is for individuals, couples, and anyone who wants to transform the way they relate — with themselves and with others. Whether you’re partnered, single, or somewhere in between, the tools you’ll learn will meet you exactly where you are.

𖡼 Are the sessions recorded?

Yes. Every live call will be recorded so you never have to worry about missing anything. Recordings will be available throughout the course and for 30 days after it ends, so you can revisit the teachings as often as you like.

𖡼 Is there support outside the live sessions?

Absolutely. You’ll have access to a private online space where you can share reflections, ask questions, and connect with other participants throughout the journey. In addition, we offer an optional weekly Group Q&A / Coaching / Practice session for those who want extra support with integration, embodiment, and applying the tools in real life.

𖡼 What if I can’t attend all the live calls?

While we encourage you to attend live to receive the fullest experience, we understand life happens. You’ll have access to all recordings, and you can still engage through the assignments and our online community space.

𖡼 Can I get 1:1 support?

Yes. You’ll have the option to book 1:1 sessions at a special discounted rate during the course for more personalized guidance and support.

𖡼 Time Commitment at a Glance

Weekly Live Class: 2 hours
Weekly Prep: Short videos — less than 30 minutes
Daily Practice: 10–30 minutes for journal prompts + applying tools in real life
Optional Support: 1-hour weekly Group Q&A / Coaching / Practice session

💡 Tip: Watching the preparation videos before class and doing the daily practices will help you get the most from each session.

𖡼 Are scholarships available?

Yes. Thanks to the generosity of our community and the Sponsorship Fund, we have a limited number of scholarships to help make this work accessible to those who feel deeply called but cannot afford the full tuition. If finances are the only thing standing in your way, we warmly invite you to apply. (Application coming soon, please send us a message via the “contact us” tab if you are interested)

𖡼 Can I contribute to the Scholarship Fund?

Yes. If you’re in a position to give beyond your own tuition, you can register at the Sponsorship Price (any amount above $555). Your extra contribution goes directly into our Scholarship Fund, helping someone whose heart is ready for this work but whose finances are limited. It’s a beautiful way to extend the transformation you’ll receive to another person in our community.

𖡼 What if I’ve done other relationship or personal growth work before?

Perfect! This course will build on what you already know and give you new, body-centered tools for deepening connection, communication, and self-awareness. Many students find that it brings their previous work to life in a more embodied way.

𖡼 Is this course safe for people who have experienced trauma?

Yes. This work is trauma-informed and paced so that you can engage at a level that feels safe for you. You’ll always have permission to participate in a way that honors your body and your boundaries.

𖡼 Do I need any special technology or equipment?

All you need is a device with internet access for live calls (Zoom) and to access the online community space. A journal is recommended for prompts and reflections.

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